Close Relationships

One of Our Earliest Ways of Feeling Loved Was When We Felt Protected

Source: paulbr75/Pixabay Knowing when and how to protect someone we love — from their inner dangers, from outer threats, from the seemingly random accidents than occur — is an intuitive way to show love.  So, too, is knowing when to step back and leave room for them to care for themselves.  To read about "52 Ways to Show I Love You - Protecting" in my Life, Refracted blog, click here.

July 14th, 2017|Categories: Aspects of Loving, Close Relationships, Life, Refracted|

When Miracles Occur, Look for the Love

Source: paulbr75/Pixabay When I saw the video that I included in the post below, I felt filled with awe.  Technology can indeed be an amazing tool - but it was the love shown by the parents and staff and then by the children themselves that allowed the actual miracles to take place.  Love is most definitely real.  To read and watch the post from Life, Refracted, click here.

The Day I Took the Earlier Train I Felt Giddy with Loving David

People feel loved in different ways but showing always beats telling. Running for that train, I knew I was running to show love.  Read my post in Life, Refracted  to see how gleefully we can express love through showing it, rather than talking about it.  For 52 Ways to Show I Love You: Take an Earlier Train, click here.

June 30th, 2017|Categories: Intimacy, Life, Refracted, Marriage|

Showing Love Through Creating Together

Creating helps a person tap into the spirit within and that in the universe.   Doing it alongside someone you can trust and respect allows space for love to blossom and expand.  See my Life, Refacted post on showing love through creating together by clicking here.

June 23rd, 2017|Categories: Close Relationships, Inspiration, Life, Refracted|

52 Ways to Show I Love You: Accepting Responsibility

and Old, Familiar Ones.... Last week, in “Recognizing Mistakes”, I introduced some ways in which a close relationship can become derailed. Misunderstandings, poor or missing communication, failures to clearly express wants and needs and to consider ways to meet them can all offer occasions to show love. Taking these opportunities a bit further, we can Accept Responsibility for a challenge within the relationship. What needs accepting? Individual responsibility — I did it! People vary in how they experience their inevitable errors, especially those [...]

May 7th, 2017|Categories: Aspects of Loving, Close Relationships, Life, Refracted, Uncategorized|

52 Ways to Show I Love You: Recognizing Mistakes

Source: bykst/Pixabay According to Cardinal John Henry Newman, “To live is to change, and to be perfect is to have changed often.” Hopefully, we grow not only in response to changing conditions but also in recognition of “mistakes” we have made in the past. Regrets of ways in which we may have hurt someone we love, or damaged our relationship with them, can be the most troubling. Recognizing such errors can be a big first step towards repair and showing your love. What [...]

May 1st, 2017|Categories: Aspects of Loving, Close Relationships, Life, Refracted|

Creating Surprises: An Excellent Way to Show Love

Source: Alexas_Fotos/Pixabay A few days ago, when I slid into the driver’s seat for the first time since the anesthetic haze following surgery had cleared, I buckled up for my debut solo excursion in nearly a month. I noticed how spotless the windshield looked. The car was immaculate. Lint and debris had disappeared from the seats and floor mats. Bottles of water sat in the spaces designed for them. Clearly my husband had intended to surprise me. I was delighted. His unexpected actions have long left me [...]

April 26th, 2017|Categories: Aspects of Loving, Close Relationships, Life, Refracted|

“Showing Up” Powerfully Demonstrates Your Love

Being there for performances, events, dates and times of need shows love. Source: cocoparisienne/Pixabay Woody Allen is often credited with saying “Eighty percent of success is showing up.” I don’t know what the statistics would say about the proportion of love that is expressed through “showing up” but my guess is that, in successful relationships, it is large. “Don’t tell me, show me.” “Don’t talk the talk; walk the walk.” There was even the hit song from My Fair Lady, “Show me”. What do we show up [...]

52 Ways to Show I Love You: Expressing Love Through Observing

Observation, the first task of scientific inquiry, can also express love. Source: nightowl/Pixabay With careful observation, people can identify the sources of their own happiness, meaning and joy. For example, using discernment, they can evaluate what money can and cannot buy. Yes, it can secure a good bit of comfort, beauty and freedom, providing relief, pleasure, and opportunity. But it cannot buy respect, love, trust, or creativity. While purchased pleasures can also offer distraction from intensity or relief from the grind of discipline, they can also [...]

April 12th, 2017|Categories: Aspects of Loving, Close Relationships, Life, Refracted, Uncategorized|

52 Ways to Show I Love You: Allocating Resources

Source: liuhonghezhengsji/Pixabay We each have resources available to us. Internal resources, such as our genetic potentials, developed talents, memories, personality styles. Motivations that animate us intersect with external resources — including time, money and energy — accessed through or heavily influenced by our environment at any moment. We constantly make decisions, consciously or unconsciously, about ways in which we use our resources. When we choose to use them in the service of a relationship or of someone we care about, we are showing [...]

April 5th, 2017|Categories: Aspects of Loving, Close Relationships, Life, Refracted|Tags: , |
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