When you take the time to listen to and consider a loved one’s point of view, you show them respect and love.  Types of psychotherapy developed over the past fifty years have increasingly stressed the value of changing perspective.  But just as shifting how you think about something can enhance your own well-being, it can enhance understanding, appreciation, and intimacy in a love relationship.  To learn more, read “52 Ways to Show I Love You: See a Different Point of View”, my latest post in PsychologyToday.com‘s “Life, refracted” blog, click here.